Dear Bough: Nasa Loob Ako, Nasa Labas Siya





Dear Bough,
Isang girl ang naiinlab sa isang seminarista. Ano kaya ang gagawin nya?
Love lots,
Seminarian Rivera 
Dear Seminarian Rivera,

Masyadong maramdamin ang tanong mo..at napakahaba. Wala talagang back story? :P

Nalito ako kung si 'girl' ba o si 'seminarista' ang dapat may gawin. Piho ko, ang gustong tumbukin ng tanong mo ay kung dapat ba silang mainlab sa isa't isa, given the situation.

Hmmm.. mahirap ang tanong mo. Mas mahirap pa ito sa interview na pinagdaanan ng kaibigan ko..lolz.

Bweno, sabi nga ni Ateng Donna Cruz mo: Sha-dam-da-da, sha-da-da; Kapag tumibok ang puso, wala ka ng magagawa kundi sundin ito.

Naiintindihan ko na bilang isang seminarista, may mga vows na dapat sundin. Kung si girl ay nagsabi na may mahal syang brother, I guess keri lang naman yun. (Keri talaga?!) Keri kung hanggang dun lang- as in nagprofess lang sya pero walang expectations.

Ibang usapan na ito kung mahal nga sya ni girl at mahal din sya ni brother. It's complicated. It's super complicated. It's super duper complicated.

I'm not in the proper position to tell kung after bang magsabihan kayo na mahal ninyo ang isa't isa ay dapat na nga itong ituloy sa relasyon. To put it frankly, either lumabas si brother so as not to complicate things or put an end to the feelings if he wish to push thru with his chosen vocation.

Siguro, ang sitwasyon na ito ay pwede din pagnilayan ni brother kung nararapat nga sya sa kanyang piniling bokasyon.

Para kay girl, pag-isipan din nyang mabuti ang sitwasyon. Kung di naman nila ito dadalhin sa next step o sa pagiging magkarelasyon, wala naman sigurong kaso dun. Or both of them can choose to be friends and go on with their lives. Sa'yo girl, there are many fish in the sea. So explore. :)

May nabasa ako. Sabi nya: “Don't entrust your future on others' hands. Rather make decisions by yourself with the help of God's guidance. Hold your beliefs so tight and never let go of them!” 

Life is about making choices and decisions. You choose to love or be in love and what-not. At the end of the day, it's about choosing happiness. :)

I don't know if you found my words sensible.. hahaha 

Well, I wish you joy and happiness. But above all these, I wish you love.. :P

Lubos na gumagalang,

Bough

PS. Pinahirapan mo ako sa tanong mo..hahaha
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About Allan Bough

Allan works full time as a Recruitment Head for an IT Solutions company in Makati and juggles blogging along side. He’s fond of travelling, a certified beach and nature lover and would want to explore more of Earth’s riches. A former community theater director, a pre school teacher and a frustrated Star In A Million contestant, Allan hopes of conquering the big stage for a spotlight one day. Conversation and people are his passion.
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